Today my gender is: scissors.
would you go out with a guy who had picked a total joke name for himself? like what if a guy had legally changed his name to, say, bela lugosi, would that be a nonstarter?
no seriously i need to know like asap
No. He’s totally going to do gross things like try to puppeteer your ass cheeks. This goes down with cartoon character tattoos and eyebrow rings for me.
So I was writing this whole long essay about dyke sexuality and being a “safe” woman…
And finally I was like, just get over your own internalized homophobia. You’re not a predator breaking into the sacred temple of public women’s segregated spaces for being gay. Being femme isn’t being deceptive. You’re aren’t a monster for wanting to have consensual violent sex with other women. You can protect women AND be total nasty domme at the same time. You don’t have to feel bad about perving out on your grrrlfriend’s femme-y body. She’s actually really into it and likes the fact that there’s still more beast inside you that she hasn’t seen yet. The end.
Deleting last hard drive back-up as edge play